Posted 10 years ago
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Good day,
first off short sum up:
1) your problem
A stalker is harassing my love interest. Creating alt accounts if blocked, threatening friends and overall isolating her. (Further details below)
2) how this problem effects you
Through his abusive behavior we got to keep meeting in secret. Also the girl I care about is in distress and it doesnt seem like I can do anything or IMVU intends to do anything.
3) Where in IMVU this problem is coming from
From the stalker and IMVU's obvious disinterest in dealing with the matter.
Now the more elaborate version:
I had a relationship with that girl. But we were not meant to be at that time. Fast forward a bit more than half a year in the meantime things changed we worked on ourselves and overall the compatibility is increased. Just that there is one issue. During my absence she started something with a guy who initially was friendly and caring but quickly turned out to be a horrible monster.
Cheated on her abuses and yells at her or whines. Threatens an complains about her friends scaring them away from her through harassment, leading to the point where she only has 2-3 loyal friends who stayed by her side. His constant yelling and abuse also left mental marks, leaving her paranoid and worried about getting yelled at more simply for someone hugging her.
He has been reported repeatedly and blocked several times but creates alt accounts as required. We are talking in PC and we are getting along but obviously there is this shadow looming over the entire story the whole time.
She is in a "relationship" with him because she only can take that much abuse before caving she already tried getting rid of him a few times but... yeah we all know the stories of domestic abuse and comparable situations. I do not have chat logs to back up my claims because she is "forbidden" from talking to me (because he knows that we are still important to each other after all that time). And hanging out in a public room with him or even her would have drastic consequences for her that I would rather avoid.
I hope there is something you can do. Giving names and more details in PM not broadcasting them publicly for obvious privacy reasons. She also does not know about this, I am trying to get as close to a resolution as possible without telling her about it to avoid getting her hurt if I don't find a way to "save" her.
first off short sum up:
1) your problem
A stalker is harassing my love interest. Creating alt accounts if blocked, threatening friends and overall isolating her. (Further details below)
2) how this problem effects you
Through his abusive behavior we got to keep meeting in secret. Also the girl I care about is in distress and it doesnt seem like I can do anything or IMVU intends to do anything.
3) Where in IMVU this problem is coming from
From the stalker and IMVU's obvious disinterest in dealing with the matter.
Now the more elaborate version:
I had a relationship with that girl. But we were not meant to be at that time. Fast forward a bit more than half a year in the meantime things changed we worked on ourselves and overall the compatibility is increased. Just that there is one issue. During my absence she started something with a guy who initially was friendly and caring but quickly turned out to be a horrible monster.
Cheated on her abuses and yells at her or whines. Threatens an complains about her friends scaring them away from her through harassment, leading to the point where she only has 2-3 loyal friends who stayed by her side. His constant yelling and abuse also left mental marks, leaving her paranoid and worried about getting yelled at more simply for someone hugging her.
He has been reported repeatedly and blocked several times but creates alt accounts as required. We are talking in PC and we are getting along but obviously there is this shadow looming over the entire story the whole time.
She is in a "relationship" with him because she only can take that much abuse before caving she already tried getting rid of him a few times but... yeah we all know the stories of domestic abuse and comparable situations. I do not have chat logs to back up my claims because she is "forbidden" from talking to me (because he knows that we are still important to each other after all that time). And hanging out in a public room with him or even her would have drastic consequences for her that I would rather avoid.
I hope there is something you can do. Giving names and more details in PM not broadcasting them publicly for obvious privacy reasons. She also does not know about this, I am trying to get as close to a resolution as possible without telling her about it to avoid getting her hurt if I don't find a way to "save" her.