Hey everyone im new here and i really need someones help. I've been married to my wife for almost 6 years now and she's been playing imvu for 5 of those years. Its to the point that I am 85% sure she's cheating on me with someone from the game but i can't prove it because she wont ever let me see her phone and she has now hidden her notifications. I've use find.vu to see her profile but that doesnt tell me anything and ive tried creating my own imvu profile but she keeps searching my emails on imvu to see if I've made an account. I need help catching her up in this without her finding out its me. Please help!!!!

Why are you 85% sure?

im assuming that when u tried searching her vu name on find.vu it popped up saying that they have vip block...but honestly...just talk to her about ur concerns...

I honestly understand your frustration. I recently built a sort of find vu alike which can also see outfits, ap rooms and all sorts of those. So, I think it should he able to find her if that is what u truly wish. I do advise talking to her about your concerns. But, u can join tooly’s discord: https://discord.gg/H7KB6nq7. And mention me yupyup076#0 I’d be happy to help u uncover this situation if that is what u require. It also relatively fast my variant. It’s able to scoop most users up in 20 seconds no matter which room. So, come give us a holler and I’ll see what I can do for you.

Well im actually more sure than 85% cause she's done this before and she's very good at hiding things when she doesnt want to get caught. When i tried to talk to her about it she flips it around on me and turn me into a the bad guy and start accusing me of cheating on her. Ive thrown my phone at her and told her to go through it multiple times.

Don Von Alpha Dom wrote:

@AxeofdoomWhy are you 85% sure?

I also checked. It checks out her visitations to AP rooms is quite absurd. It's 80% AP rooms and all contain to some degree possible black market poses. Even FIND VU shows such behavior, but they recently made a switch for AP being only available to VIP users, and since subscriptions are closed I think he felt empty handed not being able to catch her correctly. So, yeah it is weird that one must join these rooms, but still. Question has been answered for most part. It's weird they closed VIP subscriptions though. I always expected it to be a such a success. So, for those who still have it if u wanna keep it running, keep it running. Becuase, u cannot renew it.

yup_disc wrote:

Don Von Alpha Dom wrote:@AxeofdoomWhy are you 85% sure?
@Don Von Alpha DomI also checked. It checks out her visitations to AP rooms is quite absurd. It's 80% AP rooms and all contain to some degree possible black market poses. Even FIND VU shows such behavior, but they recently made a switch for AP being only available to VIP users, and since subscriptions are closed I think he felt empty handed not being able to catch her correctly. So, yeah it is weird that one must join these rooms, but still. Question has been answered for most part. It's weird they closed VIP subscriptions though. I always expected it to be a such a success. So, for those who still have it if u wanna keep it running, keep it running. Becuase, u cannot renew it.

have u checked her outfits? that is a way to kinda figure out if she's been having sex in those rooms as they will show the most recent outfit in the room.

I have no doubt she is probably cheating on you via IMVU. Personally, I would not mind if my wife got off on some poor looser cucks' pixel dick that's probably over 1000 miles away while I'm pounding her cunt guts deep inside out IRL. That's my marriage though. If her activities bother you that much and she knows you would not like it, then it is cheating.

Are you married IRL and living together? Got kids together yet?

Planning to divorce if you do find proof?

If so, I would recommend against throwing this investigation of yours and its findings in your wife's face. Spying on your spouse's online activities, even if you think she is cheating, is illegal. She can use it against you in court during the divorce.

Instead of telling her about your findings, I would save the evidence and give it to your lawyer. Your lawyer will know how to sopena legal copies of her activities from the phone company. Otherwise, any evidence you supply could be found admissible due to being illegally obtained ... on top of charges of illegally obtaining her data.

For your personal investigation, it sounds like you looked at her rooms. She went into sex rooms with sex poses ... there's no reason to go into those if you're not planning on having sex. As others have said, if she has nude outfits ... the only reason to have those is to have sex or strip. What more proof are you really looking for? You've already proven it. Any further details from the sounds of it, will only serve to hurt your feelings.

If you're not planning on divorcing her, I'd recommend you either reconsider or accept her cheating. Your relationship sounds toxic. Distrust is a poison raging through your veins. You will not live a long nor happy life till you either accept your wife and her repeated cheating, or get rid of her.

The whole reason i need proof is because she tells me i cant play because ill not only make friends but i will have sex with girls all the time. She lies straight to my face and i want solid proof that she's doing it not because i want to use it to get a divorce but because if things where the other way around thats exactly what she would do.

Dang sorry for that bro wish we could help but id ask a girl to help u find that out follow one of her close friends and ask her to help u find out