Cheating-Decision or Mistake

by L0K33z · 11 posts
1 year ago in Off Topic

Posted 1 year ago · Author

Do you all think cheating is a decision or a mistake people make?

Tbh I think it’s a decision. Yes sometimes stuff can happen but not as often as most allow it to be. Also you know what your doing before you even do it cause it’s playing out in your head and u deciding if you want to fuck wit it or not.

Posted 1 year ago

Most definitely a decision... whether or not the execution of the act of cheating happened by mistake, you totally 100% put yourself in that position for it to happen.

Posted 1 year ago

Both, but I'd say 75% decision. It's like anything else in life, you gotta have self-control or will. Ultimately you choose what you do and I'd rather be seem like the bad guy or a bitch than cheat. In most cases it's not hard to let someone down gently though, tell 'em you can't or don't want to even if you're tempted. I promise you will feel 10x better as a person for staying faithful.

Posted 1 year ago

Theres a video on insta i've seen recently. In which a woman outright admitted she would cheat on her husband (she was speaking to her husband).
She also explained that since she knows that's how she would be, she intentionally goes out of her way to avoid placing herself in situations where she might be tempted to do so. Really interesting video.

Posted 1 year ago

little bit of both but most definitely a decision! but granted everyone has their own definition of what cheating is so...

Posted 1 year ago · Author

I agree Faxx bruh

@Mikeb2907

-- Sun Dec 17, 2023 6:38 pm --

True

@sadecatgirl

-- Sun Dec 17, 2023 6:39 pm --

Hmmm this is very interesting and the husband okay with hearing all this sounds like a toxic relationship yet a huge situation waiting to happen if she has to fight her urges of trying not to cheat

@Xacto

-- Sun Dec 17, 2023 6:40 pm --

Sometimes all that isn’t even the case some females or males just like the adrenaline and seek those urges yet most want their cake and eat it too sort a say

@Auspicious K

Posted 1 year ago

definitely a decision

Posted 1 year ago

I think its a decision and then they turn it into a "mistake" as a reason to get out of blaming themselves.

Posted 1 year ago

@Andy

oooo very well said! gotta love gaslighting and victim blaming XD

Posted 1 year ago

it aint no mistake smh oops i feel in this pussy or on this dick nah that dont happen u wanted to do what u did and u regret it so its a mistake but only because u cant admit that u wanted to do it from the beginning anyway.

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