Posted 13 years ago
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So either way i am always having parent problems about MY money that I earn myself .
They are always rambling about how i'm spending too much and stuff like that .
Well my step dad doesn't like that i spend money .
Hmmm well what makes me angry is that :
A) i earned that money from hard work .
B) i never asked for money as i earned it myself
C) i am obligated to spend my money where ever i want whenever i want however i want.
D) they do not own my credit card even though it is signed under my mothers name , it is mine to use as i wish and it always has been like that .
So i don't understand why do they have to control the money that they do not own and that i didn't borrow.
My step dads argument was that "ohh well you will need money stuff for school/college to buy and who will buy it?" well duh my mother will give me money and she always does ave it due to the fact she owns a hair salon . He always want to make me feel like i stole that money from my mother when in fact i got them all from work , first i was dieing hair just to pay for my warcraft account then i was earning and selling credits just to buy my fiance the stuff he wanted.
This isn't related to the lot i got him now (will repay you Don on the weekend) . But i just need some valid arguments if they start rambling again .
I feel like i should have the right to control the money i have no ? i am gonna be 18 in 3 months and yet they still think that they own my money.
Yes i do understand that my mother buys me clothes and feeds me but that is something she has to do as a mother not something she chooses to do . i choose to earn my money to spend that money not to let it rot in my bank account .
Thank you for reading . I need some valid arguments to make him shut up and stop controlling my money .
They are always rambling about how i'm spending too much and stuff like that .
Well my step dad doesn't like that i spend money .
Hmmm well what makes me angry is that :
A) i earned that money from hard work .
B) i never asked for money as i earned it myself
C) i am obligated to spend my money where ever i want whenever i want however i want.
D) they do not own my credit card even though it is signed under my mothers name , it is mine to use as i wish and it always has been like that .
So i don't understand why do they have to control the money that they do not own and that i didn't borrow.
My step dads argument was that "ohh well you will need money stuff for school/college to buy and who will buy it?" well duh my mother will give me money and she always does ave it due to the fact she owns a hair salon . He always want to make me feel like i stole that money from my mother when in fact i got them all from work , first i was dieing hair just to pay for my warcraft account then i was earning and selling credits just to buy my fiance the stuff he wanted.
This isn't related to the lot i got him now (will repay you Don on the weekend) . But i just need some valid arguments if they start rambling again .
I feel like i should have the right to control the money i have no ? i am gonna be 18 in 3 months and yet they still think that they own my money.
Yes i do understand that my mother buys me clothes and feeds me but that is something she has to do as a mother not something she chooses to do . i choose to earn my money to spend that money not to let it rot in my bank account .
Thank you for reading . I need some valid arguments to make him shut up and stop controlling my money .
Arguing only makes the both of you look bad, them because they can not control you like they are supposed to, and you because you are disobedient.