It depends on the kink(s). Honestly some of those rooms disturb me, but I'm not about to judge with some of the freaky shit I enjoy lol. If you're actively looking for room to go to yourself? Best to search for the specific kinks you want. IMVU's room search isn't exactly the most reliable, but you'll usually find what you're looking for a page or two deep.
If you're into BDSM stuff, it'll be harder to NOT find a room like that than it is to find one. A couple other kinks are also stupidly over-saturated, I probably don't need to tell you which they are.
Now if we could just get accurate room tags that aren't just for 'publicity', that'd be great.