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1) Go out to parties, clubs, bars, and events. Instead of going out with the goal of getting a date, just go out with the goal of having fun. Live life for yourself. Focus on the positives. Smile. Laugh. Be wild. Everyone wants to have fun, and people will be attracted to you if you appear to be always having a really good time.
2) Go to the gym. Buy dumbbells. Get fit. Eat healthy. Don't focus on loosing weight. Focus on gaining muscle and increasing stamina. Don't be weak. Don't be a pussy.
3) Financial Independence. Make sure you have your own car, apartment / house, have a job, and are not weighed down by debt. You don't have to be rich. Just don't be a burden.
If you can lock down those 3 things : Fun, Fitness, and Financial Independence .... then sex partners / dates become pretty easy come by.
Don't be afraid to double or triple up on first / second dates in a single week with different women. This is the 21st century. You're not chained down to a single partner unless you agree to go steady with a woman.
If by the third date you're not totally stricken in love with the woman / if she's not a great lay (or if she don't put out at all), then I'd dump her and move on. It's better to keep looking than to waste time / resources on dead weight.
4) Don't be a dumbass. Read books. Keep up with the news. Be able to hold a conversation. Know how to tell a good / entertaining story, but holding a conversation does not mean talking all the time. It means listening, understanding, and asking questions to keep her talking.
If you find someone you love, then try to promote them to girlfriend and go steady. If you find someone you don't love but they are a great lay ... try to promote them to fuckbuddy.
@Krishnakumarbhoi
, here are some real life dating tips.1) Go out to parties, clubs, bars, and events. Instead of going out with the goal of getting a date, just go out with the goal of having fun. Live life for yourself. Focus on the positives. Smile. Laugh. Be wild. Everyone wants to have fun, and people will be attracted to you if you appear to be always having a really good time.
2) Go to the gym. Buy dumbbells. Get fit. Eat healthy. Don't focus on loosing weight. Focus on gaining muscle and increasing stamina. Don't be weak. Don't be a pussy.
3) Financial Independence. Make sure you have your own car, apartment / house, have a job, and are not weighed down by debt. You don't have to be rich. Just don't be a burden.
If you can lock down those 3 things : Fun, Fitness, and Financial Independence .... then sex partners / dates become pretty easy come by.
Don't be afraid to double or triple up on first / second dates in a single week with different women. This is the 21st century. You're not chained down to a single partner unless you agree to go steady with a woman.
If by the third date you're not totally stricken in love with the woman / if she's not a great lay (or if she don't put out at all), then I'd dump her and move on. It's better to keep looking than to waste time / resources on dead weight.
4) Don't be a dumbass. Read books. Keep up with the news. Be able to hold a conversation. Know how to tell a good / entertaining story, but holding a conversation does not mean talking all the time. It means listening, understanding, and asking questions to keep her talking.
If you find someone you love, then try to promote them to girlfriend and go steady. If you find someone you don't love but they are a great lay ... try to promote them to fuckbuddy.
