@Xacto
If I was looking for a sugar momma, then I'd search terms like: femcel, yandere, puma, cougar, sabretooth, cubs, milf
A femcel is a woman with extremely high or extremely specific tastes in men. She can find men, but none that meet her standards. The femcel will normally abuse and use men who don't meet her standards ... till she finds and manages to snag the man of her dreams. At which point there is a high chance of her turning into a crazy as fuck grippy sock yandere sugar mama. Not all femcels have the same tastes in men. I've met some who say they want a young nerdy gamer boy and some who say they want a dumb himbo. It's one of those, you don't choose them, they choose you situations.
Then you have milfs, who are hot single women with kids. They normally have a job, their own place, and lots of snacks in the kitchen. They tend to have that strong mommy energy. A lot of men swear upon the benefits of dating milfs.
Finally, you have pumas, cougars, and sabretooths. These 3 are older women who only want to date younger men. Pumas are 30 - 40 years old. Cougars are 40 - 50 years old. Sabretooths are 50+. All 3 refer to their boyfriends as "cubs". I dated a lot of these ladies back in my single days. Lots of great sex. These women have experience in spades and know what they are doing. Married one of them.
Or you know ... you could try to find a female submissive who is into findom. (financial domination) I've never seen one, but I assume at least a few of them exist out there.