I am not sure who I can ask. I have tried over and over to ask my I guess boyfriend for his facebook password but he refuses to give it to me but he knows mine and if I change it he freaks out on me...I do not trust him as of now for there are many things I am being told he does when he is not home. I believe he is cheating on me. He deletes text messages from his phone and calls random people.I can not just up and leave him, it is more complicated then that. I need proof. If I get into his facebook account and find proof then I can put him in his place....We have a baby together. I live with his family. My mother is an alcoholic and if I went there my son would be taken away from me. I know if I leave he will take my child, there is no doubt in that. I really am not sure where to post this or who to ask. Everyone tells me to leave him. It hurts. Alot. Just to even imagine him touching someone else but when a girl I know messages me on facebook and says she has done "intimate" things with him when we "broke up". We have never broke up we been together since 12/15/09. Except for when he leaves i threaten to leave him...but he still doesn't come home that night and that same? That's how I know something is up... He denied it and yelled at her and refuses to talk to her. But why would my friend lie to me? She had no reason too. That's what confuses me. His bestfriend is a single male who thinks he is any girls dream man. He used to act well I guess still acts the same way. When he goes out he always leaves me home. Even if I found a babysitter. He unincludes me. Says there is no room or just doesn't bother to ask me to go. I really hope some one can help me. Please PM me. I have been talking to a therapists about this and since I have depression, that is more of a thing he can bring up to take my son away. I also do not have a job at the time but will be going to college. A local one. Off campus. I know I need to get out. Once a relationship has no trust there is nothing. My therapist told me that. SO I am asking again will someone please help me. I'm tired of feeling like a mistress. But lately he hasn't gone out because I will not let him without me. It seems fair right? After he just goes off like 40-50 times without telling me where he was? While I was prego... Not even counting the times he dipped off. Oh also he accused me of doing things with one of my friends. I have no clue why. The one night I go out. He flips every time. Now he has a job and hes always busy but I just don't know. Every time he gets a chance to go off (without me) he goes. Most of time its drinking. He can not hold his alcohol at all if someone offers it he can't say no. And when he gets drunk he always want to be "intimate" but not sleep with someone. Which is weird because thats what my friend told me. It all just fits together way to perfect to be made up. Plus his phone has a porn virus on the videos whenever you select one its a porn picture of a girl being "intimate" with a guy. Which was exactly what he enjoys more than anything. He has told me that before himself. :/

Sorry If I just continue to ramble. It's just I have proof but not real evidence. It sucks. I think I know his email he uses for his Facebook. I'm pretty sure I know it. Just PM. Please.

Also If I get proof of this he will stop. He always thinks hes invulnerable. He goes by a religion that is consider and old religion the norse gods are in. Called Odinism. I think I'm not sure. But basically it means to him he has to be number one.

While your story (if true) is very sad, this is an Imvu related community. I don't think you will find much help here with your life problems. I would help but I don't bother with Facebook so I can be of no use.

However, my best advice is to listen to what everyone is telling you and just leave, it will never get better if you stay with him. Only you can make the change happen.