IMVU Stalker Protection Request

Posted 8 years ago · Author

I am extremely disappointed by IMVU on their failure to tackle online abuse/bullying and stalking. After reporting many times to IMVU my stalker is back again after being temporarily blocked. I have changed my name and my profile and opened new account but this person always finds me and it starts all over again. I am being stalked on IMVU for few years now because this person will not take no for an answer and is trying to bully me into having relationship with him. When I become friends with people he does not like it gets even worse. He follows my online activity to the T. He messages people with bad things about me that are untrue. He copies my
images and room names so that every time I change the name on mine he renames it the same as mine. One shouldn't feel guilty if one did not a relationship they didn't want. I have freedom to choose who I will be with and more to point it is morally unfair and not right to lead someone into something that could never be. I do not know what to do anymore. This is causing depression and is ruining my life. Please help me to make him
stop. His name is [Name Removed By Mods].

Last edited by smallworld on Tue Apr 12, 2016 12:41 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Posted 8 years ago

Many people on this Earth are weak, and when they feel it's impossible to get your positive attention they go for your negative attention because they feel it's better than no attention at all. Sad but common, this is why trolls exist, this is what bullying stems from. So how do we rebuttal this? It's simple: The absolute best way to deal with an online stalker like this is to refuse to give their attention, YOUR attention.

By showing this person that they are effecting you, you are feeding into their warped idea of your relationship. They are happy to play antagonist because at least they get your attention. By allowing their movements to force you to make movements, you are giving them control. It isn't about a relationship with this person, it's about knowing that they can make you show emotion whenever they want. So my advice to you is to completely disregard them. If they make a message to you, don't respond with "leave me alone" or "stop stalking me or I'll do this". Just don't respond at all. Block and delete their previous message. If they make a room that resembles yours, let them. Let them feel stupid as they sit in a room by their self. If they contact your friends with weird messages, tell your friend that they are just a sad stalker and to not respond.

TL: DR

Do NOT feed the trolls.

Posted 8 years ago

F.A.T.E. wrote:
Many people on this Earth are weak, and when they feel it's impossible to get your positive attention they go for your negative attention because they feel it's better than no attention at all. Sad but common, this is why trolls exist, this is what bullying stems from. So how do we rebuttal this? It's simple: The absolute best way to deal with an online stalker like this is to refuse to give their attention, YOUR attention.By showing this person that they are effecting you, you are feeding into their warped idea of your relationship. They are happy to play antagonist because at least they get your attention. By allowing their movements to force you to make movements, you are giving them control. It isn't about a relationship with this person, it's about knowing that they can make you show emotion whenever they want. So my advice to you is to completely disregard them. If they make a message to you, don't respond with "leave me alone" or "stop stalking me or I'll do this". Just don't respond at all. Block and delete their previous message. If they make a room that resembles yours, let them. Let them feel stupid as they sit in a room by their self. If they contact your friends with weird messages, tell your friend that they are just a sad stalker and to not respond.TL: DRDo NOT feed the trolls.

completly right i like the trolls part lol

anyway eventhough its hard to do what F.A.T.E ust said basicly thats what you have to do and as i previousy stated in another post just like this changing an account name or making another account is not a solution specialy if that stalker had time to know how you behave, how you talk, how you dress etc plus he may know some of your friends so no matter what you change about your account he\she manages to find you.

the solution to this is quite simple.Besides doing what F.A.T.E said you can block every acc he she is making posibly using imvu lite from here you can simply mute that acc so you cant see what he\she is typinng for you in chats.
if you have vip you can make your rooms friends only.thats a major help.
Adding to this make your profile and messages available for friends only

By muting them and not seeing what they type for you its easyer to ignore them.That way they will eventualy give up.

Wish you Goodluck and if you need aditional help we are here to help you
plus Don Von Alpha Dom has a service for helping you more with this.It wont be cheap but he will get the job done you can pm him for more details

Posted 8 years ago

Forgive me if I am skeptical, but the PM you sent me said that [Name Removed By Mods] has been stalking you for a few years, yet his account is only 2 years old. Also, he is a married gay man whose profile is covered in devotion to his partner. On top of that, he has been strongly outspoken against cyber bullying and online harassment on the IMVU forums in multiple threads; going so far as to giving people advice on how to gather information on stalkers and how to report them to the police.

I am going to call foul on this protection request. We will not be providing any type of offensive protection in this case. All evidence points towards the man you are accusing as being innocent. We will not go after an innocent man.

If you want, you are free to block him and mark your profile as private.

Posted 8 years ago

nicely said Sir Don

Posted 8 years ago · Author

Thank you for nothing IMVU Mafia..

Posted 8 years ago

no imvu mafias is family u don't talk about family like that if u mess with one of us the whole crew will come at you now Sir Don And im sure other people investigated Ur case if they said the person u need protection from is harmless then it's set in stone don't be trying to get my imvu mafia's family to attack a innocent person and think before u request something that isn't needed no offense

Posted 8 years ago

smallworld wrote:
Thank you for nothing IMVU Mafia..

Just simply get more proof because words is just a means of starting the fire not showing it's true form. Provide screen shots, chat logs, videos, or even posts.

Something concrete to show the Don that this person is a stalker.

I'm not siding with anyone but without solid proof no one takes action.

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