Posted 11 years ago
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Alright guys, we all know we do it. Two minutes into sex, that sweet little girl beneath you lets out the most sensual of moans and you want to release right then on the spot. How do you hold yourself back and keep the moment going?
I have a few techniques that I like to use:
1) start off with oral / fingering on her if she lets you, to get those initial moans out of the way ... get her closer to satisfaction before sex even starts
2) start slow and gentle; do not pick up the pace till her hips are practically begging for it, else you will rush towards the end and lose control; you can always get rough and fast later on if that is what she is in to
3) try to name all of the books in your favorite saga in order (Harry Potter works well for me); other memory games work just as well
4) clench your ass checks as you thrust forwards and hold it there for a second when you feel like you are about to cum (the ass muscles contract during ejaculation, so contracting them the split second before can stop / post pond an ejaculation by confusing the muscles into thinking it has already happened) [This also works with muscles at the base of the penis, but unless you train those .... they are hard to control]
5) change positions to give your cock a few seconds of break
6) try to masturbate within a few hours before sex, so you are not needing a release as badly
7) Use the backwards thrust technique to keep the motion going, but less sensation on your cock (push in slowly and pull back fast)
8) Instead of thinking of pleasuring yourself / releasing during sex, concentrate on the goal being her pleasure ... that is all you are there for; yours will come naturally so it is not something you need to think about
Some people say to think of something disgusting during sex (old ladies knitting and baseball), but that ruins it for me and makes me loose my hard-on.
Some people also say to put a little oral numbing gel into your condom, but again ... that ruins it because now you can not feel your dick. (Trojan longer lasting condoms work the same way, except they numb both partners)
Some people also say to use Lifestyles Extra Strength condoms, which have the thickest latex on the market, but again .... can't feel your own dick, lol. From my experience though, this one works, maybe a little bit too well. Four hours in the sack and could not cum till I took it off.
So, what are your ejaculation preventions if you are not ready for the fun to end yet?
Personally, I would like to just continue fucking after I ejaculate, but my partner insists on changing the condom so it does not bust .... which kind of just ruins the mood if you have to fiddle with a condom for a minute .... and once you loose your hard-on after ejaculation ... it is kind of gone for at least a good 20 minutes ... by which time she is asleep or doing something else ....
I have a few techniques that I like to use:
1) start off with oral / fingering on her if she lets you, to get those initial moans out of the way ... get her closer to satisfaction before sex even starts
2) start slow and gentle; do not pick up the pace till her hips are practically begging for it, else you will rush towards the end and lose control; you can always get rough and fast later on if that is what she is in to
3) try to name all of the books in your favorite saga in order (Harry Potter works well for me); other memory games work just as well
4) clench your ass checks as you thrust forwards and hold it there for a second when you feel like you are about to cum (the ass muscles contract during ejaculation, so contracting them the split second before can stop / post pond an ejaculation by confusing the muscles into thinking it has already happened) [This also works with muscles at the base of the penis, but unless you train those .... they are hard to control]
5) change positions to give your cock a few seconds of break
6) try to masturbate within a few hours before sex, so you are not needing a release as badly
7) Use the backwards thrust technique to keep the motion going, but less sensation on your cock (push in slowly and pull back fast)
8) Instead of thinking of pleasuring yourself / releasing during sex, concentrate on the goal being her pleasure ... that is all you are there for; yours will come naturally so it is not something you need to think about
Some people say to think of something disgusting during sex (old ladies knitting and baseball), but that ruins it for me and makes me loose my hard-on.
Some people also say to put a little oral numbing gel into your condom, but again ... that ruins it because now you can not feel your dick. (Trojan longer lasting condoms work the same way, except they numb both partners)
Some people also say to use Lifestyles Extra Strength condoms, which have the thickest latex on the market, but again .... can't feel your own dick, lol. From my experience though, this one works, maybe a little bit too well. Four hours in the sack and could not cum till I took it off.
So, what are your ejaculation preventions if you are not ready for the fun to end yet?
Personally, I would like to just continue fucking after I ejaculate, but my partner insists on changing the condom so it does not bust .... which kind of just ruins the mood if you have to fiddle with a condom for a minute .... and once you loose your hard-on after ejaculation ... it is kind of gone for at least a good 20 minutes ... by which time she is asleep or doing something else ....
thanks for real life advice