Posted 3 years ago
@Soli
Yeah easier dressing the same body/head as your "teacher" to learn faster and once you feels more confident then you can try other body/head types on your own.
The collar thing can be dangerous if used in the wrong hands. Smart advice is to never give your collar control to someone you barely know. Also in the same way, never accept a collar from someone else. Best thing is to get an official one from the mainstore or from the official vendors that are trusted by the main creator. A collar given by someone can contain malicious script or stuff that you wouldn't want happen.
Also nothing beat a true D/s relationship when doing it right, you don't even need a collar to give orders to your sub.
I'm mostly using collars as a tool and not a way to submit someone else. Collar can be useful sometime like if your sub felt asleep infront their computer, you can safely teleport them to home from their collar menu for example.
Also just another advice, don't use P9 (aka peanut) collars. Wendy was a former dev on the OpenCollar team until ... some drama happened and she decided to make her own collar version but also her source code is private which is kinda against the license from the original OpenCollar. She was also to be know to hide some stuff inside her products. Yet a lot of people still buy her collars anyway.