I'm currently trying to help out a friend that's in a really bad situation, and IDK if this is the correct place to be asking help on this, but here goes.

My female friend is younger, 16 years old. Really nice person, but got caught up with the wrong guy.
She broke up with him, but now he has forced her back into a relationship. Why?

He has some private pictures of her that she obviously shared to him in the confidence that he would keep them private. Instead, he kept them and is now using them as a weapon to keep her in the relationship with him. He threatens to spread them everywhere and anywhere if she doesn't comply.

But what makes this even worse is, he's 19 years old, and taking advantage of an underage girl like that is really messed up, and highly illegal. Supposedly he's not from the USA like she is, so she feels like it would be pointless to try to threaten him with legal authority.

I'm just trying to at least get some advice, because nobody deserves that kind of abuse and harassment.

If any one has suggestions, they would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

M.

Have a read here https://www.justice.gov/usao/file/851856/download

google "what to do when someone blackmails you" and get a general idea

Have her ask him for naked pics cause she thinks hes sexy and wants to send him more pics of her masturbating to his pics.

Then use the pics he sends to blackmail him into letting her break up with him.

^ Yep, I'd say the same, possibly have to play along like shes into him for awhile, really well, but it would be worth it.

Throw some:
"I love you's"
"I changed my mind, I don't know what I was thinking"
"I want to marry you someday"

his way and get him on the hook, his seemingly deep desperation will make him stupid enough to send them. If hes desperate enough to black mail her to keep her, that same desperation could also be his downfall.

Dr trouble in the building

Or else you can do as I used to do when guys asked for nude pics google " huge women in the nude" copy alot of them and then when asked send those instead of real pics and if they threaten to spread them around say go ahead let the lawsuit come upon his head then...lol


But speaking honestly WHY the hell would you send anyone nude pictures over the web of yourself omg... NEVER trust another with such EVER...It was really a stupid move on her part and for her stupidity of sending him real nude pics of herself without meeting the guy well all I can say is she put herself out there to be taken advantage of. Although I feel sorry for her to have to endure this well it is only her own fault for not thinking. and again if you truely wish to send nude photos of your actual self cut your head off and let them post all they want as no one can tell it is you then or put a mask or wig or something on to change your appearance help photoshop someones head onto your body if they are so desperate to see you in the nude. I have been with my IMVU husband 6 years and yes we have met in real life but he has never once asked me for nude pics over the internet and if he did he would get ones like the one above...lol

LAST WORDS:::::NEVER EVER SEND NUDES AT LEAST FULL NUDES... When a guy sends you nudes he sends one of just his penis why do you think he does it like that and besides half the time when they do that they are some porn stars johnson..lol hell use google images on the photo and see if there is another that matches the photo you were sent and see who it actually is.

Hell for that matter never believe anyones so called RL pictures on IMVU unless you have cammed with them or have seen them in person because so many lie and wished they looked like what they post and if you post real life pics you are a fool and trust to damn easy and deserve what happens...just saying

that deserves a

I see.... well sir.. many situation you can do I know a lot.. that can fix this situation..... 1. handling right away...... 2. hacking way....

handling right away...
if she call cops.. for sending those picture... and he using it against her.. he 19 and she 16... that pedophile move right there he will be register has sex offender...

he will be on site when he move someone will know.... he doing big mistake.... by doing that.. that immature for showing no respect to woman body... if I knew him to be honest ill punch him in throat

also. he being very mature and need to learn how to grow F up. and move on.....
(don't recommended)
hacking way....
there many way you can grab his ip address and ddos him.. or restart his pc.... looking like he crash there many way to start with this but also I don't recommended this.... I don't think site.. will do too... so in my option do right away ^_^

I'm currently trying to help out a friend that's in a really bad situation, and IDK if this is the correct place to be asking help on this, but here goes.

My female friend is younger, 16 years old. Really nice person, but got caught up with the wrong guy.
She broke up with him, but now he has forced her back into a relationship. Why?

He has some private pictures of her that she obviously shared to him in the confidence that he would keep them private. Instead, he kept them and is now using them as a weapon to keep her in the relationship with him. He threatens to spread them everywhere and anywhere if she doesn't comply.

But what makes this even worse is, he's 19 years old, and taking advantage of an underage girl like that is really messed up, and highly illegal. Supposedly he's not from the USA like she is, so she feels like it would be pointless to try to threaten him with legal authority.

I'm just trying to at least get some advice, because nobody deserves that kind of abuse and harassment.

If any one has suggestions, they would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

M.

I believe this is a crime called "sextortion" if you look up Amanda Todd, you will see her story. The very same thing happened to her, she commited suicide. You should report him to the police, im pretty sure the punishment for this crime is jail time. I hope she can get her problem fixed!

SuccAFrenchFry wrote:

I'm currently trying to help out a friend that's in a really bad situation, and IDK if this is the correct place to be asking help on this, but here goes.My female friend is younger, 16 years old. Really nice person, but got caught up with the wrong guy.
She broke up with him, but now he has forced her back into a relationship. Why?He has some private pictures of her that she obviously shared to him in the confidence that he would keep them private. Instead, he kept them and is now using them as a weapon to keep her in the relationship with him. He threatens to spread them everywhere and anywhere if she doesn't comply.But what makes this even worse is, he's 19 years old, and taking advantage of an underage girl like that is really messed up, and highly illegal. Supposedly he's not from the USA like she is, so she feels like it would be pointless to try to threaten him with legal authority.I'm just trying to at least get some advice, because nobody deserves that kind of abuse and harassment.If any one has suggestions, they would be greatly appreciated.Thanks,M. I believe this is a crime called "sextortion" if you look up Amanda Todd, you will see her story. The very same thing happened to her, she commited suicide. You should report him to the police, im pretty sure the punishment for this crime is jail time. I hope she can get her problem fixed!

She can still use legal actions against him even if it's offline .
And depending on the age of censent where he lives (it's 16 where i live) she can contact the police and the police will contact the perpetrators country .
Secondly it won't last if she is threatened back into a relationship by force , it is just a mirrage of what it used to be . Now as for the private pictures it really depends if she has her face on it or not , many of us are guilty of sharing something we shouldn't it is a huge risk doing so . But i doubt that he can do much harm with them apart from minimally shame her .
I have seen so many things on the internet i doubt anyone would care at this point except for her and if he has contact with her parents but then he would only put himself in danger of authorities .

Best i can tell you is to tell her to break it off and block him from any social sites , he won't have the balls to share the pictures and if he does it only causes trouble for him .

I have had a bad relationship of my own , i got out of it on my own terms and now i am in a loving 3 year long relationship with a man that respects me and knows my troubled past . She will need your support and help as a friend since it is very hard to get out of a abusive relationship .
If you need to talk you can private message me .