so i got stuck into some love quarrel argument with my significant other and she thinks I did something wrong in chatroom when in reality I did nothing. is there a way for me to retrieve the chat log? i tried D.M program but it says no logs found and i haven't cleaned out any of my accs caches or anything.

The chat recover is a buggy program. I never really finished it. If you haven't cleared your logs then a lot of what you say should be in the IMVULog.log or cpp.log files. Its gonna be a pain to search for the chat lines though.

Move on, find someone else. This relation isn't working if you are going to the extent where you have to dig the chat logs to justify yourself.

Also what Elie said.

Elie wrote:

Move on, find someone else. This relation isn't working if you are going to the extent where you have to dig the chat logs to justify yourself.

i agree better doing it sooner then later

Sometimes people want/like the person that they are with and do not want to leave them. However I'll agree that its not healthy if you have to go through all that, if a person doesn't trust you, then the relationship is not a healthy one.
This is irrational behavior, and should be talked about. If the trust is gone, then the relationship will unravel anyways. I'd suggest that you talk to the person, if you can't and they insist on knowing what was said then perhaps it is time to move on from the relationship, because this same thing will recur in the future.

also sometimes women argue with you to end a relationship sometimes they dont want to tell you they want to break up just something to think about

1st I tried to open those files and did not see any chat dialogue only where IMVU crashed me out with it's red lettering.

2nd, it is not always the womans fault as the male most of the time is at fault because of his insensitivity to understand a womans thoughts or wants. And sometimes a woman finds it hard to put into words exactly how she feels as she tries to do it delicately as not to make the man pissed off more then he needs to be....so again the woman always has to tip toe around a male because he basically is a male and has been raised to not really show emotions and be the stronger of the 2 sexes.

Men at times are Pigheaded, Stubborn, Rude, Crude and hard to read. A Woman is Fragile, insecure, delicate, and eager to please. Sometimes to act like to rational adults and sit and speak about things openly is the answer that is if there is a strong emotion still between the two of you. Communication has and will always be the key to a healthy and long lasting relationship.

yeah it's easy on IMVu if some mate pisses you off to just say take care and move on to the next no big deal as it is not like in real life. On IMVU one cannot read ones thoughts or thier body language nor can they see thier facial expressions as all that is lost in a text based world. These things are important to be able to see and to interpret as to how that person is feeling and expressing themselves. Now I could be here crying my eyes out and yet type as if nothing is wrong and how are you to know if i do not say so and then even if i say I am crying my eyes out would you believe it? No because you cannot see it to feel how I am feeling. so...Sometimes something that is overheard or said could be taken out of context and feelings hurt so Communication and expression of your feelings through words has to be taken more delicate.

Trust is a large issue on IMVU because it lacks being able to hear see and feel emotions as you would in real life and without communication in real life in some form rather a skype call to let that person know you and know your vocal refractions and to hear how you are when you express your emotions and if you need to cam to see ones body language. other then that words will always just be words with no emotions.

Anyways back to what I said on IMVU it is easy for anyone to be with one person and then to break up to be with another wash dry and repeat. Yeah you become a IMVU Whore. and it really shows you really do not care abotu the person that is behind the AVI. But what matters it taking the time to really make something last and be meaningful to the two of you. As they say giving up is easy and making up is harder but making up makes you the better person...


REMEMBER COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY